Stop waiting and make small changes

This was taken from Edalene's old article from her blog and its so interesting that I need to copy and share it with my friends here. Lets start making resolution that is workable and changeable ...

1. Go through your cell phone address book and delete anyone of the opposite sex you haven’t spoken to in six months or more. If you couldn’t come up with a reason to call Reynaldo in the last six months, chances are you won’t come up with a reason to talk to him in the next six.

   Before you ask, calling him today does not count. E-mailing him “just to see how he is and wish him a Happy New Year” does not count. Having his number “just in case” also doesn’t count. Ask yourself this: If you need a flat tire changed or a bone marrow transplant, would you call Reynaldo? No? Delete him!

2. Get a pencil and paper and work out how may times you’ve called your guy in the last 60 days. Now work out how many times he has called you. If you’ve made more calls than he has, stop calling. At least for a while. Leave him alone so he can miss you. Do all kinds of wonderful, you-centric things while you wait. Consider the fact that he’s not calling because he doesn’t want to talk to you. Refer to Step No. 1 if the wait gets too long.
3. Go through your closet and take out anything you haven’t worn since the last time you saw Reynaldo. You may have lost or put on a few pounds. Styles have changed, or maybe you were never that trendy. Whatever the reason, if you haven’t stepped in it in six months, toss it. (If the tags are still attached, first be ashamed of yourself. Then put it on eBay.)
4. Take off all your clothes, turn on all the lights and look at yourself in the mirror. Notice I didn’t say “look critically at yourself in the mirror.” Repeat after me: “No man will care if I don’t weigh 115 pounds. And if he does, the hell with him!” (Don’t forget that last part.)
5. Get a glass of wine. Getting dressed is optional. There! In five easy steps, you have successfully started off the new year with someone who appreciates you for who you really are. Now call one of the guys still in your address book and see what he’s doing with his bone marrow on Friday.

By Bridgette Williams